Apr 23, 2021
Do we only have one true soulmate in our life, or are there many loves that can light us up? This week, Sherry and Carla welcome Kathryn Alice, bestselling author and one of the most successful life coaches in the world. Kathryn has changed countless lives with her work and has a “Wall of Marriages” to prove it. Kathryn talks about why she thinks there is a lid for every pot when it comes to love, how to stay patient when you are feeling very single, and getting out of what she calls “crazy love” into something more stable and secure. Kathryn also gives one simple tip that helps 80% of people get a second date, and her tips and tricks for being a magnet for the type of love you want as an independent, healthy, strong human.
Kathryn has been featured in Psychology Today, Parade Magazine, The New York Times, and many more nationally known publications. She was featured as an expert in the feature film Secrets of Love, and directed Agape’s Crisis Support Team for six years.
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- A Love Fix question about uncovering a consistent fear in your relationship - is it a fear of confrontation or possibly something else?
- Kathryn is not only a best-selling author, but an extremely successful and sought after coach, speaker, and mentor to other coaches.
- Kathryn was a single mother for several years until she got together with her soulmate Jon at 41 and went on to have her own children.
- What is the difference between our soulmate and a twin flame?
- What if our soulmate passed away or left us? Are we done forever, or is there hope of finding love again?
- More about Kathryn’s books and Coaching, along with resources from Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency and gaining confidence.
- How to discern the difference between soulmate love and what Kathryn refers to as the “Voice of Attachment”.
- Many women in their late 30’s and beyond fear never finding love, but Kathryn reminds us to relax and enjoy the moment. Love is on the way!
- Kathryn has a “Wall of Marriages” in her office to remind her of all the success stories she helped facilitate.
- When we can learn to enjoy being alone, we can be more authentic on our dates and show up more fully as ourselves.
- The one easy trick that lands 80% of people a follow up date.
- A great coach will help you get healthier and heal with a better template, but that also doesn’t mean developing a co-dependent relationship with them.
- How we can best navigate feeling lonely, especially in this isolated time.
Tweetables:
- “There’s no limit on love.” - Kathryn
- “It’s pretty easy to become less socially awkward when you are around someone you like.” - Kathryn
- “Your future self is telling you to chill out. It’s fine. Love is on the way so just get ready and enjoy your last single days.” - Kathryn
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Find Out More:
Sherry
Website | Instagram | Facebook | Love Smacked | Wake Up Recovery for Codependents
Carla
Website | Instagram | Facebook | Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp
Kathryn
Website | Books | Instagram | Secrets of Love