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The Love Fix

Jul 7, 2023

Carla shows Sherry a picture that takes her breath away, and then they take a Love Fix question from a listener who is dating a guy who said he gets bored easily, and it’s making her feel insecure and unsure of what to do next. They then welcome Kasturi M, a relationship coach and Marriage and Family Therapist based out of India. She has a global audience and helps individuals all over the world build healthy relationships and marriages. Kasturi talks about self sabotage, attachment styles, and provides some great resources for conscious coupling and upping your confidence when it comes to love.


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Today’s episode is sponsored by Carla’s book Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good and Sherry’s book Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love 


Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode.


What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • Common examples of self-sabotaging in relationships.

  • What are the most common reasons that people self sabotage? 

  • How understanding our attachment style can help us learn areas that we can improve, and where we may be self sabotaging. 

  • How infidelity and also constantly being the “saver” and “fixer” can be forms of self sabotaging. 

  • Is getting bored easily a red flag? 

  • Attachment styles are not permanent, they can change.

  • More about the success rate of arranged marriage vs. “love” marriage. 

  • The importance of looking at different cultures and how dating and relationships are impacted.

  • How can you do the work to be in secure attachment, so that you aren’t getting triggered in a relationship? 


Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.